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Post by Sanctuary on Oct 28, 2006 1:50:10 GMT
I can relate to your situation Jon. However fathers will be fathers, and I guess the correct thing to do is respect them. But dont listen to me, for it's late and the Sanca man drink to much(again). Next week I will be sober again (shit) I promise.
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Post by Sam on Oct 28, 2006 13:17:17 GMT
i dislike him so much, i told him not to associate me as any relation to himself
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Post by schaopke on Oct 28, 2006 15:45:08 GMT
man he still is ur father i know how u feel man but dont worry about it try to have a good talk with ur old man. explain him how u feel. its difficult i can tell but it helps ! it really does !
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Nikita
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Post by Nikita on Oct 28, 2006 15:55:22 GMT
hi Jon, as a mother of 3 i cant stay behind with my opinion Sanc is right ofcourse, kids have to show respect, but parents also have to respect their kids. from what i understand Jon, ur father aint the best thing u have walking arround in ur life atm, things will get better soon i hope, and u know if u want to shout or yell at some1 just call me take care
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Post by mariachi on Oct 28, 2006 16:41:21 GMT
Man... how many times i had argues with my ol man... Ive been threated many times to be kicked out da house, there wasnt a day I had words with the old bastard. The situation where we went fist to fist changed it a bit. Note: i was like 16 that time, so i can understand his reactions, i was a hard mofukka to handle. Ive dried up pretty mature though, and also me pops has changed. Give it some time, the fact is you still live in his house, wether you pay every month or not, its still his house, also dont forget, that thanks to him you are even able to post on this forum. Without dada no son. Dont let small situations like you mentioned be a reason to have a shitty relationship with your father the rest of your life, its not worth it, and im sure you can laugh about situations like that someday, drinking a pint with your old man, sitting on the couch togetz. Take it easy, keep your cool, and dont loose the patience, its all for your own benefit, coz one day, youll gonna need your daddy, personally, I cannot imagine my life without him. Take it eaz dude, If anything still bothering you, get one of us on msn, email, or in the clan section of this forum. We are more then just a bunch of gamers playing with the same clantag, we are family, we got your back mon.
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Post by Sam on Oct 28, 2006 17:27:04 GMT
i understand what your all saying yes, but if only you all knew how disgusting my father is and how he has treated me since i was young, Hes an embarassment, and to mention him as my father puts shame to me.
This incident is one of thousands, but in general, his hobbies include, running people down in the family, criticising everyone, being selifsh, abusive, lazy and damn right rude! He doesnt believe he should praise people but instead he should run them down or criticise whatever he can find problems with. Hes an absolute fool and he is moving out very soon as my mother is divorcing him. I see him a very lonely man in the future with no relations but his computer. He thinks money can buy happiness, but i guess hes found out the hard way.
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Post by schaopke on Oct 28, 2006 18:21:41 GMT
well if thats ur father srry for u then mate
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Post by ancient on Oct 29, 2006 8:57:26 GMT
one last word from me.
just remember we are ALL to long in the grave, and spend such a little time on this planet....
hope you can resolve your problems with your dad.
yours Ancient..
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Post by Martyr on Oct 29, 2006 11:09:59 GMT
An interesting thread Jon... and some really nice & measured responses too. If the worst comes to the worst mon... just remember ze clan can always adopt u
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Post by EviLTwiN.uK on Oct 29, 2006 11:19:32 GMT
If we do Adopt you Jon.. I aint doing the breast feeding..
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Post by schaopke on Oct 29, 2006 12:11:28 GMT
if u swallow i adopt u :p
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Post by Sam on Oct 29, 2006 13:41:52 GMT
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